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For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. & it was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.


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♥Thursday, August 23, 2012

Which Zodiac Are You In?

JANUARY=CHATTER
Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the centre. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them ALL.


FEBRUARY=THUG
Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. sexiest out of everyone.A real speed demon. Has more than one best friend. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest and loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.


MARCH=GORGEOUS
Drop dead gorgeous!!! Attractive personality. Affectionate and Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Chatterbox! Loves to talk alot! Loves to get their way! Unbelievable kisser! Easily angered. Very stubborn in the most way possible! Loves to get noticed! Willing to take risks for others. Makes good choices. Has a great fashion sense! Maybe a little too popular with others . Outgoing and crazy at times! Intelligent. Can sometimes be a heart-breaker! Can love as much as possible! Hates insults. Loves compliments! and quiet the charmer. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. The best in bed out of the other 11 months!! Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses others.likes to keep they're crushes kinda secret. pretty much flawless.


APRIL=ADORABLE
Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous. Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does work well with others. Very confident. Sensitive. Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer everyone up and/or make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and traveling. Systematic.


MAY=LOVER
Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people’s problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional. Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore. Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand.


JUNE =FINENESS
Fun to be with. Loves to try new things. Boy/girls LOVE you. You are very popular. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes-rep pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.
 


JULY=GANGSTA
You’ve got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt and more than likely have a very attractive partner, a wicked hottie. Like somebody with a JUNE birthday. It is also more likely than that you have a massive record collection. When it comes to films, you know how to pick them and may one day become a famous actor/actress yourself - heck, you’ve got the looks for it!!!


AUGUST=ATTITUDE

Outgoing personality. takes risks. feeds on attention. self control. kind hearted. Self confident. loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. easy to get along with and talk to. has an “every thing’s peachy” attitude. likes talking and singing. loves music. daydreamer. easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. loves to be loved. hates studying. in need of “that someone”. longs for freedom. rebellious when withheld or restricted. lives by “no pain no gain” caring. always a suspect. playful. mysterious. “charming” or “beautiful” to everyone. stubborn. curious.. independent. strong willed. a fighter.

SEPTEMBER=IMP
Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the center. Great in bed. Inner and physical beauty. Doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. A meaningful love life partner. Makes right choices. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Does not harm others. It is all about love and fairness. Easily hurt and hard to recover. Daydreamer and does fulfill. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Knows what to do, to have fun. Unpredictable. Someone to have close to you. Extremely smart, but definitely the most adorable of them all.


OCTOBER=PASSIONATE
Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at Times. Knows how to have fun. Very mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind.


NOVEMBER=SWEETIE
Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. having many children. Hardworking. High spirited.


DECEMBER=BEAUTY
This straight-up means ur the most good-looking Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the attention.

★˜…My rantsSs @ 11:42 AM with (1) kissess…˜★


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♥Monday, July 23, 2012

"因遗憾而思念,因思念而犯错,因犯错而后悔。"

试想想,若没有所谓的遗憾就不会有所谓的思念,若没有所谓的思念就不会犯所谓的错,若不犯所谓的错就不会有所谓的遗憾。为什么这么简单的道理,人类从古至今都还是学不会。。?

学不会的原因可能、或许、因该是少了些理智。但理智往往在每件事上都派不上用场,所以渐渐地被忽略了?也许就是少了理智,所以就多了感情-人才会常常犯错,也因此多了些遗憾。此外,感情也可能会模糊了理智,让人犯错,留下遗憾。

简单来说,感情和理智只有一个小缝隙的距离。何时应当理智,何时应该听从感情?这就要靠多年经验的累积。。。但如果学会了又再犯同样的错误,就是愚蠢。

世上愚蠢的人很多,清醒的人很少。就因如此,所以感情这样东西不是每个人"玩得起"的啦~



严爵 - 好的事情


休息是为了走更长的路
你就是我的旅途
都是因为你 我一直漫步


想要跟你一起走到最后
但我遗失了地图
谁给谁束缚 谁比谁辛苦
爱到深处才会领悟

好的事情 最后虽然结束
感动十分 就有十分满足
谢谢你 是你陪我走过那些路
痛 是以后无法再给你幸福
好的事情 也许能够重复
感动时分 就算纷纷模糊
不要哭 至少你和我记得很清楚
爱 是为彼此祝福


想要跟你一起走到最后
但我遗失了地图
谁给谁束缚 谁比谁辛苦
爱到深处才会领悟

好的事情 最后虽然结束
感动十分 就有十分满足
谢谢你 是你陪我走过那些路
痛 是以后无法再给你幸福
好的事情 也许能够重复
感动时分 就算纷纷模糊
不要哭 至少你和我记得很清楚
爱 是为彼此祝福
不要哭 至少你和我记得很清楚
爱 是为彼此祝福

★˜…My rantsSs @ 1:54 PM with (0) kissess…˜★


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♥Wednesday, June 13, 2012

郁可唯 - 暖心 
 


歌词:

靠近你就觉得安心
因为你那双爱笑眼睛
你笑我 猫一样好奇
聪明又偏透着傻气

Darling 我想告诉你
其实我比你爱我更爱你
善解人意 浪漫话语
仿佛一切命中注定

你的体贴 温暖了我的心
就像夏天的风吹过那么凉爽安静
我轻轻依偎在你的怀里
天空挂满祝福的星星

你的体贴 温暖了我的心
就像倾盆大雨 舍不得淋湿爱你的心
我要唱给你听 陶醉在你给的甜蜜

Darling 我想告诉你
其实我比你爱我更爱你
善解人意 浪漫话语
仿佛一切命中注定

你的体贴 温暖了我的心
就像夏天的风吹过那么凉爽安静
我轻轻依偎在你的怀里
天空挂满祝福的星星

你的体贴 温暖了我的心
就像倾盆大雨 舍不得淋湿爱你的心
我要唱给你听 陶醉在你给的甜蜜

陶醉在你给的甜蜜 

~

之“只因为你”,只要这首歌的音乐一响起、歌词一下,我便会不知不觉地发自内心的笑。这感觉真的好奇妙。。。似乎有种幸福、甜蜜的初恋感觉。

或许这就是我对恋爱的期望和期待吧。。。?

但童话故事般的结局只会在偶像剧里出现,在现实生活中简直是难如登天。。。。。

★˜…My rantsSs @ 8:54 PM with (0) kissess…˜★


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♥Tuesday, June 12, 2012

個人的感情都是自私的.
總是希望自己要的一定要能得到.
然而總往往忘了是否也該先付出.
才有可能奢求一份期許.
愛情.對很多人來說.都是不停止的傷痛.
曾經.它是如此......
當有機會再撿拾.驚恐疑惑的心態是難以平復的.

相信.這樣的年紀.不管男女都一般吧.
只是.有些免疫了.懂得淡化感情.
明白怎樣潛移默化自己的需求.喔!
應該是許多男人的拿手絕活吧.
而女人.卻多半走不出自我囹圄的框框.
可笑吧?抑或是可悲!
男女的不同生理構造竟然也造就了不同的心理與命運.
不過.我還是篤信一點.....
真心的人.用真心換取真正的幸福.
無心的人.拿無心奪取一時的快樂.
結果...終究還是公平的!!


們常聽到有朋友抱怨愛情前後不一的樣子...
追求時是多殷勤,而追到手後卻失去了當初的熱情...
女人開始懷疑男人有新歡...
男人認為女人無理取鬧...
分分合合中.....
愛情的品質直直滑落........

我們也常聽到...
許多人大喊:我只要細水長流的愛情,不要轟轟烈烈的愛情!
但是,似乎看到的每一對情侶總在一開始就愛的死去活來,天天膩在一起...
不然就是電話講個不停,一付我可以為對方犧牲一切的模樣...
愛情總在一開始猛烈燃燒,卻常常燒成灰燼 ~ ~

我常會思考一個問題:我愛的是這個人,還是愛上愛情的感覺?
通常有一半的人是戀上愛情的感覺...
所以當他們在沒有情人時總是感到空虛寂寞,直囔著想找個人來愛...

假如再更講究一點,
還會加個「 要對的人來愛 」的條件,以表自己的「寧缺勿濫」!
但說穿了,只不過是想找人填補心中的空缺,找個愛自己的人...
因為沒有被愛就活不下去!

而另一半則是真的愛這個人,他們願意付出,就算對方會粗心大意的忽略自己...
也不會一直比較誰愛誰多...
假如哪天對方離開了,也不會因得不到而來個玉石俱焚...


會告訴愛我的:請用「心」來愛我!
別用你的感覺來愛我...
感受被一個人疼,不要每天專車接送...
也不是要甜言蜜語...
更不是夜夜激情...
要在乎的,是對方看自己的眼神!

跟你在一起時,他的視野都是你...
有熱情、有欣賞...
當不在身邊時,他的心中是惦記的,有思念、有相信!

兩人在一起不是要相互牽絆...
我們說牽掛牽掛,是牽引著自由去將愛情掛在內心深處...
假如對方表示他因為想你而一整天茶不思飯不想...
那代表在愛情裡,他還不夠獨立!
這樣的情人很多,而他們也終會真正屬於某一個人、某一段感情...
找到願意接受另一個人將夢想建築在自己身上的,這是其中一種愛情型態!

而在愛情中,的確是很難將兩人分的清楚...

因為畢竟愛情是兩人一同創造出來的,是兩個靈魂交錯的光合作用...
只是,不要忘了,屬於自己的那一顆心依然在胸口掛著...
而思維更是專屬的!

雖然一路上會有形形色色的人陪自己走過...
但唯有自己是陪自己全程走完..
不忠於自己,那要對誰負責? 


如兩人在愛情中都失去自己,為了對方改變自己...
看不到獨特性,久了愛情會像間只賣cappuccino的咖啡店...
沒有其他口味的驚喜...

承諾,是愛情的某種制式語言,可能說天荒地老...
可能言海枯石爛...
但往往再多的保證都留不住已變的心...
頓時承諾成了刺耳的諷語...
不管自己是承諾的給予者或接受者...
最後的解釋只剩力不從心!

我從沒給過關於未來的承諾..
因為我連下一秒的雲彩都無法預知了?
怎能告訴另一個人我們的將來有多美?
就連要給我承諾我也要不起...
只怕是期待越高,失落越大.......

山頂的風景很美...
但是不管是跌下來或是走下山,都比上山痛苦!
相愛不難...
但是愛已兩難時,卻苦不堪言~ ~

先給自己承諾吧!

承諾一下自己會愛多久???
承諾一下愛有多真???
承諾一下怎麼讓愛幸福???

假如,連對自己的承諾都給不了...
怎有權利去對別人的未來負責?
怎有能力去給別人快樂?


顆裝滿愛的心...
是熱忱的、是傻氣的...
假如遇到另一顆對的心,那便是全天下最幸福的事了!
我們往往無法與最愛的人相愛到老...
卻能選擇與最懂自己的人相處?
這何嘗不是種最美好的過程?

我們能求的不多,無非是種穩定與真心...
用心是一切付出的基礎!
激情後的溫暖是真的...
絕望後的領悟是痛的...
我們都該讓真心起飛 ~ ~

別再問愛人與被愛哪個幸福 ?
我只能說,真心的人最幸福!!

簡單一點~ 中庸一點~ 生活 快樂而滿足...
前進一點~ 後退一點~ 人生 優遊而自在...
愛自己一點~愛別人一點~幸福 為你而存在...


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♥Monday, June 11, 2012

摘自 许常德 《爱该有五个情人》

每个人最少需要五个情人不是总共是同时
这五个情人是五张拼图  
它拼出人因爱而想要的满足
那是肉欲情欲依靠给予延续的车厢
在你寻爱的旅途上 一并让你拉上
火车头轰轰响着
仿佛向世界宣告你已启程
延途靠站哪个会是你的车厢
伴随你往后的旅程

大部份的人选择一个车厢
他们的理论来自传统的传承
坚定相信一个车厢的忠诚与完美
就像我们相信所有的算命师
不准也不敢踢馆 错也只是认为错在自己

这理论基础分析起来像是个骗局
要你从你决定结婚的这个人身上
跟他要这五张拼图
而且还不能明目张胆的要
只能耐心地期待
就算你在一开始就绝望
也不鼓励你放弃
只鼓励你放弃希望  安心认命
你一认命你拖行的将是何等沉重的茫然
这五个情人到底是怎样的情人
他们之间不会犯矛盾吗
在问题重重的婚姻制度还未废除或改善之前
矛盾是在所难免
但还是比婚姻里常有的矛盾要简单许多


第一号情人是跟你做爱非常契合的人
第二号情人是愿意和你共度一生共用生活的人
第三号是最能跟你沟通心情的人
第四是能让你长智慧精神滋养你的人
第五是相信你的人

这五号可以集中在一人两人三人四人或五人
但要集中于一人身上几乎不可能
较幸运的人可能你的另一半就具备三样
也可能一样都没有
这是对方的错吗
还是对人不该有这样的期求
或者另一半有一项符合就该感谢能不能满足对方
比要对方满足自己要能接近真爱一点
付出给人的感动就是这样
反观自己的需要
总是要在反覆的练习中找到不燥不急的平衡
也许有隐瞒   但必需善意
命运和现实常会伤害温暖真诚的人
这也不必大惊小怪或不平
至于这五个情人如何接近
透过寂寞体谅不圆满
明白欲望所以不苛责

人生一场繁复的美景

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♥Friday, June 08, 2012

人 事 已 非。。。
过去的人、事、物和种种的不愉快就让它随着海风飘走吧~
谢谢你,时间。
是你教会我要坚强和勇敢地做自己,迈向属于自己的一片天空。

★˜…My rantsSs @ 12:21 AM with (0) kissess…˜★


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♥Thursday, June 07, 2012

各位,

我回来了!

:))

★˜…My rantsSs @ 3:39 PM with (0) kissess…˜★


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